Going down the wrong path is frustrating and can lead to self flagellation and reduced confidence. This is how I reduced the chances of that happening with my writing and creativity.
Helen, this was a terrific episode, and I can't get over quite how similar our stories are! You're absolutely right - there's no joy in coerced creativity.
Years ago I turned a much-loved hobby into a business. With hindsight, I wish I hadn't - it sucked the joy out of a beautiful art form for me. I stuck with it until the pandemic gave me the opportunity to wave goodbye, but I wish I'd had the guts to admit that I hadn't wanted it for a long time.
Before the pandemic made me give up my workshop I had not ever considered giving up as an option. I'd made that decision all those years ago to DO it - so who did I think I was to now change my mind and STOP doing it? Still, that's what I did, and I'm so glad. :D
Helen, this was a terrific episode, and I can't get over quite how similar our stories are! You're absolutely right - there's no joy in coerced creativity.
Years ago I turned a much-loved hobby into a business. With hindsight, I wish I hadn't - it sucked the joy out of a beautiful art form for me. I stuck with it until the pandemic gave me the opportunity to wave goodbye, but I wish I'd had the guts to admit that I hadn't wanted it for a long time.
Before the pandemic made me give up my workshop I had not ever considered giving up as an option. I'd made that decision all those years ago to DO it - so who did I think I was to now change my mind and STOP doing it? Still, that's what I did, and I'm so glad. :D